Angelina Jolie’s choice
May 14, 2013 By Darryle Pollack

As someone who's so closely associated with breast cancer, I feel I should acknowledge Angelina Jolie and welcome her to the sorority no one wants to join. So I'm writing this to salute her for having a double mastectomy in order to avoid getting breast cancer, the disease that killed her mother. And even more to salute her for writing an article in the New York Times today, disclosing her surgeries, her health history, and her personal feelings about it. I am writing about it now because I hope that other women can benefit from my experience. Cancer is still a word that strikes fear into people’s hearts, producing a deep sense of powerlessness.....On a personal note, I do not feel any less of a woman. I feel empowered that I made a strong choice that in no way diminishes my femininity. I realize she didn't have cancer, just the BRCA1 gene; and that she had the best care money could buy; not to mention Brad Pitt … [Read More...]

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