Miss Representation: When will women wise up and rise up?

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It made me want to cry—or scream—-or both. That’s how I felt watching the trailer for the upcoming film Miss Representation—about the depiction of women in the media.  (If you haven’t seen it yet, click and watch right this minute; then read the rest of this. ) Not hard to see why it strikes a [...]

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About Face–should we take a stand on standards of beauty?

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Sure, there’s truth in advertising. Like, that dress you saw on Giselle in Vogue? Isn’t going to look like that on your body. And that ad for make up featuring the Face of Lancome? Isn’t going to make your skin glow like Julia Roberts. Well, now it turns out that without Photoshop, even Julia Roberts [...]

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No excuses needed

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You know those people who spend hours at the gym every day and claim they LOVE to exercise?  I don’t buy it.   I’m convinced they’re faking—or aliens. Me, on the other hand— I’m normal.  When it comes to exercise, I’d put myself someplace in the middle of the bell curve between Madonna and Kirstie Alley. [...]

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A celebration of cleavage

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It popped up on the calendar today, and I’m pumped up.   Just in case you’re behind the curve on boobs, and you thought October is the only month that targets breast awareness…..Today is National Cleavage Day.   I’ll spare you my humor, it would only fall flat. Lady Gaga is involved.  And so am I— I [...]

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The Age and the Art of Perfection

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She could use a little work, don’t you think? Definitely a nose job.  Plump the lips.   And she sure could stand to hit the gym and lose a few pounds. A woman today who looks like Mona Lisa is more likely to be skewered, not celebrated. What a world—–that anyone could come up with Bridalplasty, [...]

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The Promise

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Fifteen years ago I looked in a mirror and for the first time, I saw how my body looked without my right breast. From the moment I had been diagnosed with breast cancer, I was focused on fear rather than appearance— especially since my breasts weren’t my favorite body part to begin with.  I liked [...]

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In the dark

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In 2010— millions of people are still in the dark.  I don’t get it. In 2010— it’s both ironic and absurd to think a tan is a sign of health;  when actually it’s the opposite. Though small amounts of sun help to absorb vitamin D— worship of the sun is proven to be carcinogenic;  especially [...]

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Plastic Makes Perfect: Has cosmetic surgery reached a tipping point?

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I don’t judge anyone who wants to improve their appearance. I mean, who doesn’t? But as a society, I think we’ve gone far enough with the obsession to make plastic into perfect. I  hope I don’t probably sound snarky about it—still, I should say right up front:  after my own experiences with breast and skin [...]

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“Light”-headed

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This is me about to chop off my  hair  to make a wig for a cancer patient. The patient was me.    I look far more brave than I felt. Same thing 14 years later…….this time donating the hair—to make a wig for someone else. I felt way different this time.  I felt…light. Probably because [...]

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Hair today, gone tomorrow

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Mary Travers had the hair I wanted when I was a kid.  Stick-straight, smooth, silky.  Mine had too much wave, too much body.  Even though my father used to say it was my crowning glory; I hated it.  The Brazilians and Japanese hadn’t  invented their magical treatments– so to get Mary’s hair, I had to use the [...]

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