The Love Lottery: what women want

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Since the first Neanderthal man scratched out a love letter on the wall of his cave, it’s been the source of battles and ballads and books. By now  it’s the subject of scientific studies and sociological surveys….. And after all these centuries……  We know far more about the outermost reaches of space than the innermost [...]

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The “A” list

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This week is a big annual happening in our sleepy little area:   the A T & T Pebble Beach National Pro-Am–a glamour event on the golf tour offering a chance to stare or even mingle with famous golfers and celebrities.   For me,  mostly this means more traffic. Years ago, my kids thought it was really [...]

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the Old Blue and the new Yale

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Are there still any BMOC?    Translated:   Big Men On Campus—and it’s not just the acronym that’s dated.   If you saw the front page of the New York Times Sunday Style section, you know the shift in the student population  (almost 60%  female) has shifted social life on campus.   At many places, there aren’t [...]

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decisions

Though it’s a woman’s prerogative to change her mind,  I think this is V’s least favorite thing about me:  not only being indecisive, but also revisiting decisions I already supposedly made.  ( Somehow this isn’t a problem when it comes to making decisions for everyone else–that’s easy.) And now my indecisiveness can extend into cyberspace:  [...]

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Home SWEET Home

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People were so taken by those Carmel cottages I posted about recently— I have to share my favorite. If you’re in Carmel, don’t miss it— it’s so tiny, you easily could. There it is, tucked away on the main street in town….a scene right out of a storybook…. Like many local cottages, there’s a quaint [...]

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Far away….

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… .. faded from the headlines—from the hearts and minds of many Americans occupied with pressing problems in Haiti and closer to home. For other Americans it’s still far but not forgotten.  Never for an instant can they forget the people they love, separated by continents and conflicts far from home….held close to their hearts. [...]

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how do you celebrate?

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The groundhog has barely crawled back underground—- and now I find out there’s already another day in early February that demands attention. Today is World Cancer Day.    So, um…….Best Wishes Have a Happy Merry Congratulations FUCK Cancer?    That last one sounds about right. As a cancer activist I can’t write about anything else and [...]

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Money talks….

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…..and often it seems as if people talk about nothing else.   For good reason: 44% of American families spend more than they earn The average American household carries over $8000 in credit card debt Money is the #1 cause of divorce And these  figures were  BEFORE the current crisis. It’s scary—not only the economy; but [...]

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The day before

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I don’t remember the day itself;  but I have a record of what I did. It’s in this little journal  I kept through my first pregnancy.  It was meant for food—-but I’d be horrified to record what I consumed every day— so I kept track of everything else. Across the top of the page I [...]

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