more birthdays

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In one of those ironies of life and timing, this summer I became part of the American Cancer Society’s Blogger Council, working on the ACS new campaign for more birthdays.  I couldn’t have guessed how the combination of cancer and birthdays would hit so close to home last week with the sudden death of my friend Carol. Yesterday’s [...]

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Teddy

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What a life.  What stories. Who could have imagined how the adored baby of the family would turn into a  real life Teddy bear— who would bear so much—-in whose warm embrace the whole family felt safe and secure. And yet….how many times must Teddy have thought to himself—I never signed up for this….So it [...]

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the exit row

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I’m on a plane writing this.   I used to love flying and then when I became a mother I suddenly became terrified to fly alone in case of a crash leaving my kids motherless.   So for the first 8 years  I had kids, I never got on a plane without them. Once I got [...]

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celebration of life

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Celebration of life.    Over the last 24 hours, that phrase took on a mixed meaning—with some common themes:  60 years.   Old friends and new, coming together.  Lots of connecting, lots of hugging, lots of stories.   Homemade desserts. My marathon birthday reached a crescendo last night at my friend Jane’s house.     I was surrounded by [...]

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Where are the casseroles?

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Years ago when I was a young mom living in Los Angeles, I associated crises with casseroles.    It seemed as if whenever something serious happened,  a group of women would circle the wagons around the woman in need of support— and magically, casseroles would appear at her door every night until the crisis passed. For a [...]

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the gift of a life

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“Feeling happiness and gratitude—and thinking you can’t feel one without the other”:  That’s what I wrote to update my Facebook status earlier today.    Right afterwards I sat down to write a blog postscript on my birthday—- when the phone rang and pierced my cocoon of chocolate and family. Now… a few hours and a lifetime later… I’m back to that post.  [...]

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“Great minds think alike”

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Besides Daniel coming home, my nephew Aaron is also visiting–he’s the one who got us to—and from—the Obama inauguration.  So since he gave me a piece of American history I returned the favor with some family history— going through some boxes with my father’s and mother’s notebooks from high school and college.  To me, this stuff [...]

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THIS BLOG IS TEMPORARILY CLOSED UNTIL FURTHER NOTICE…… DUE TO OVER-CONSUMPTION OF CHOCOLATE

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Like most people, when I think of the sixties I’m thinking of the 1960’s.  Sure hope my sixties will be as exciting as that. The decade started quietly.  V was asleep.  I stayed up till 3 a.m. wasting time working.  The first voice of the decade: Alli’s.   I was still asleep when she called on her way [...]

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the drive of shame

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I’m not a car person.  This is, for me,  a rare understatement.   If they have safety features, and get me from point A to point B, I don’t care about cars at all. V has bugged me for years to get rid of my car.   First it was a point of principle with me.  Now [...]

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